Ever had an intense
conversation with a friend where they keep telling you to let go? Have you ever wondered what they really mean?
This expression mean differently to different people, no doubt. But the one
common thing is that they are trying to tell you loosen up like they know there
could be more, but you are not just willing to spill. You should count yourself
lucky when those you trust make such comments.
It was a phone call I
got yesterday that stirred all of these emotions in me yet again, and Geez! I
can’t believe that for 11 months plus I am still hurting. I had to talk myself out
of it only yesterday when I remembered coming across this phrase of ‘Forgiving the offender even if they don’t deserve
it.’ As this can be so profound, it
can be so true. I know I’m about the only one holding unto some hurts, and you
guys are not right? *scratches head*
This
morning, I was reading my devotional and VOILA! It was so similar to what I had experienced
yesterday. I learned that forgiveness is a condition for our own forgiveness
according to Matt 6: 14-15, as this could be evident in our physical and spiritual
well being too. I know that many times we berate ourselves for being so
gullible. And like me, I had to evaluate my relationships/ friendships, that I
often ask myself what exactly went wrong. For example, I have asked myself what happened
to the red flags, or what made them not so evident to the point I ignored them?
Again, this doesn’t change the fact that whatever happened, has happened, end
of chapter!
If you’d ever take something away from today’s
post, it is this;
the offender is never affected in all of
this. Those days or nights you stay asking some rhetoric questions, blaming
yourself on how things should or shouldn’t have played out, you end up doing
yourself a disservice; you are suffering, and doing all of the thinking alone.
Just think about that for a second! Please let them go, so that you could
totally release yourself from the guilts, hurts and pains, and you’ll find that
the benefit to you would be enormous.
My sweetheart is coming out strong.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if i ever told you this...... no matter the grammar we speak, you just listen and somehow you figure it out all by yourself. That is one gift a lot of people lack.
one last point, am not a spirikoko, but i believe in God. Hold onto him and what he has in stalk is even 500% better than the former. He promises, a bigger, brighter and perfect latter...... Somebody say Amen...Amen......lol
Surely! Though He tarries, wait for it
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