I know everyone in a relationship always
pray that they have a happy ending. Oh yeah? On the contrary, in life some things
happen when we least expect them. Perhaps, at this stage, the two partners
might decide what the outcome of their relationship would be. Several signs can
be used to determine whether a relationship is on its way out. These include
lack of communication, physical and emotional abuse among others. When these
signs emerge, it is time to act sooner than later to save the relationship (if
both parties are willing). The following are essential to fix a relationship
that is starting to go bad.
Determine
what is going on?
Instead of blaming each other for who’s done what (as
this isn’t going to fix the problem) as this only translates to having much more
anxiety and aggravates anger. Here, both partners would need to sit
down, diagnose and troubleshoot to come up with very
amicable solutions. When speaking of solutions, it should involve strategies
that can stop the problem from recurring again. It should also be able to
answer questions of why? who? and what?
Accept
Responsibility
Most of us always envy healthy relationships when we
see one. You must know that it didn’t take a day for it to get to where it is
at. Likewise with bad relationships too, they take time as well. In other to
fix a bad relationship going south, every partner should check what they might
have contributed and what could have led their actions. By doing so, it creates
room for both partners to air out their grievances, correct one another and
accept responsibility. Accepting responsibility is one of the best ways to save
a relationship
Adopt
New Relationship Rules
If a couple senses that their relationship is
heading south, it is time to re-evaluate and may be seek newer ways to make it
better. After you must have diagnosed the causes, may be replacing a lot of
things with newer ideas could just work that magic. Here, you could lay down
measures that could serve at hindrance to the future relationship you two are
hoping to have. These rules, however, will depend on what the relationship
would become. The couples could try to aim at achieving the type of
relationship they once had. Issues like frequent communication, physical and
emotional satisfaction, boredom, disagreements among other factors have to be
addressed.
Rekindle
the Love that you once shared
This will rekindle those feelings you once had for
each other when you first met. Go to restaurants, go to the cinemas
together, and hang out together more. If you are used to gifting, please go to
doing all those things you used to do before. These will arouse the love
fireworks you had (except you are a hard core extracurricular master or
mistress). Believe it or not, the relationship will be brought back on track.
It is not easy to always have a perfect
relationship. Every relationship turns into a bad state sometimes. It all
depends on the couple to see if theirs can work out or not. And to those who
may have tried all four and even more, yet the relationship broke
irretrievably, not to worry, love will soon find its way to you.
Very truly yours’
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